I think so, but apparently some people disagree. Here are excerpts from the story at Scary Mommy:
It all started when [Matt] Austin posted a totally innocuous photo with his two daughters before their [high school homecoming] dance — they’re wearing pretty normal dresses and heels for this day and age, and their dad is beaming with pride. He captioned the photo, “My daughters look a little too good on homecoming night. Believe it or not, they’re even more beautiful on the inside.”
So sweet.
The response, though, was surprising, as dozens of comments rolled in from people who thought the girls looked inappropriate.
“Those outfits are not prom appropriate, those are what women wear to the club when they're looking for some action. ... So sad that parents send their young ladies out with everything showing,” wrote one.
“I don’t think I’d be dressed like that around my father,” another wrote. “Those girls are too young to be dressing provocatively they should have respect for themselves.”
Austin’s response came in hot, and he left no prisoners.
"One thing that has always pissed me off as a father of girls is when people say things like 'oh these girls need to dress so they don't distract the boys' or even worse 'they're dressing in a way in which they're asking for it’,” he begins.
“Let’s get something clear: It’s not my daughter’s job to make sure your son is focused in school. Also not her job to dress hideous enough to where your son doesn’t assault her. It’s your job to not raise a pervert with no self-control."
While his first emotion was definitely “anger,” he also kept his sense of humor about the whole thing.
“Let’s be clear — those are not the outfits that I’d choose for my daughters to leave the house. If it were up to me, it would be 24/7 Snuggies,” he joked.
“But if I start dictating what my daughters wear, it’s going to teach them three things,” he continued. “A: they’ll start to hate me for arbitrary rules, B, they’ll start to lie to me, or C, which is even worse: that it’s OK for a man to tell them what to wear because they look too good. And that ain't happening, Karen."
The story continues at the link, including the overwhelmingly positive public responses to his comments, and his TikTok followup video. (Note: the embedded photo above has been cropped for size).
This incident didn't happen in a church school - she attends Woodford County High School, a public school in Versailles, Kentucky, just a short distance from where I used to live. The controversy regarding the dress code was recently reported by the Lexington Herald-Leader:
An online petition has begun seeking support to change Woodford County High School's 11-year-old dress code...
Wednesday was the first day of classes for students. One Facebook
post said there was "a group of female students standing in the office"
because they were not complying with the dress code.
Another post
said, "This is ridiculous! Parents are being called away from important
jobs and students are missing important class time because they are
showing their collarbones!"...
Among the criteria in the Woodford County High dress code is that
students must wear a rounded crewneck shirt or a button-down shirt that
may have only the top button open. Shirts must not expose the
collarbone. Shorts and skirts must be knee-length or longer.
This summer I went back to Minnesota to fulfill an old promise involving cremains, and while doing so, my cousins and I paid a visit to some very old ancestors. The Finseths emigrated to the U.S. from Norway in the 1850s, residing briefly in Wisconsin, then moving on to Goodhue County in Minnesota, where they began farming. The churchyard at Gol Lutheran Church (est. 1864) in Kenyon, Minnesota has the graves of these first settlers (the alphanumerics after the names are guides to locating the gravestones on a nearby map):
This week, as I finally got around to storing the photos in my memorabilia, I realized that the gravestone I photographed was one I had photographed back in 2009. Knut K. Finseth (husband of Margit Olsdatter Finseth), was born in Norway in 1809. The Faribault Republican newspaper note his passing in 1884:
That's the history (posted for family), but what caught my eye this week was that the side-by-side images (2009 and 2022) reveal progressive changes in the flora:
There is some difference in lighting and moisture etc, but clearly the lichen is spreading. What to do about it? Would removal be more damaging than letting it be? A quick Google led me to a WikiHow entitled How to Clean a Gravestone: Gentle Ways to Remove Moss, Lichen, and More. Lots of info there, including these excerpts:
Check the gravestone for cracking, flaking, or chipping before you begin cleaning. If the grave has any of these problems, it's not safe to clean.... Clean a gravestone if there's biological growth like algae, lichen, or fungi because these trap moisture and they're acidic, which can damage the stone... Pour water over the stone to soak it thoroughly... Scrape off lichen, moss, and fungi with a plastic scraper. Press the scraper onto the surface gravestone and gently scrape from the top to the bottom. You don't have to press very hard to get the biological growth to fall away. To get lichen or moss out from carved letters or images on the stone, take a wooden popsicle stick or a bamboo skewer and scrape the material out... gently scrub near the bottom of the gravestone to loosen the grime. If you're cleaning marble or limestone, use a sponge that's even gentler than a soft bristle brush... It might seem counterintuitive to clean from bottom to top, but working this way prevents limescale from forming... Apply a non-ionic cleanser like D/2 to remove tough stains... Clean a gravestone every 4 to 6 years to prevent excess wear...
If I can find the time/energy to approach this project, I think I would have to start at the pedestal base and test the cleaning procedure away from the more crucial engraved letters, numbers, and design.
Now, as I often do, I'm going to turn to the readership of TYWKIWDBI for advice. There must be readers out there who have encountered this type of situation and would be able to share advice, including what mistakes to avoid.
A tip of the blogging hat to an anonymous reader, who offered a link to this excellent video that incorporates the recommendations from the other links:
The embedded image is a scan of some of the 29c stamps I bought from a friend at our local stamp club this weekend. I use a pair of the stamps (from the 1990s) to mail a standard first class letter. I buy the stamps from my friend at 70% face, so basically I spend 40c to mail a letter. I wrote about the mechanisms and economics of discount postage back in 2014.
Recently, as a result of advances in printing technology, the situation has taken a more sinister turn, with counterfeit forever stamps flooding the marketplace. This image from Linn's Stamp News in the fall of 2021 shows a counterfeit forever stamp (on the left) next to a valid one:
The only difference visible to the human eye is a subtle difference in the sharpness of the printed letters.
In the past couple of decades, the most frequently encountered counterfeit stamp was the Flag stamp. Sellers, typically through online outlets, would sell bulk quantities of these stamps at a significant discount from face value... But in July [2021], the first counterfeit of a recent commemorative stamp surfaced. Some security features were even faked, but not the one item that triggers cancellation machines at processing centers... Based on inquiries I have received, the unsuspecting buyers are often offices looking for a deal on postage. Many counterfeit stamps I have found are on mail sent by coin dealers, many who use discount postage when sending their mail.
As of the publishing of this article, Linn’s has counted approximately 40 new counterfeit issues (180 stamp designs)... When compared to the authentic stamps, the counterfeits appear shinier. This is likely because of the lack of a taggant coating that sometimes mutes a stamp design...The other new twist is the use of a special glossy coating that provides texture to the counterfeit stamps. Examples of these have been reported for two issues: the eight 2017 Sports Balls forever stamps (Scott 5203-5210) and the 10 2021 Star Wars Droids forever stamps (5573-5582). The gloss on both counterfeits seems thicker than that on the authentic stamps. Also, the offset printing of the counterfeits has a grainier appearance.
Most of these counterfeits are being offered in bulk sales to owners of small businesses, or involve high-denomination stamps. Be wary of someone offering to sell recent stamps at significant discounts to the face value.
Reposted from March 2022 to add two images. The first shows examples of counterfeit Forever stamps alongside valid ones -
The second screencap is a take-home message advising Americans to beware of offers of deeply-discounted stamps on social media. While it is unlikely that any naive person would be prosecuted for mail fraud after inadvertently using counterfeit stamps for personal mail, it is important to understand that the money used to purchase those counterfeits is going into the pockets of bad people in China and perhaps Russia.
"There are red stars, and orange ones, and yellow, and blue, and violet, and ultraviolet. So it's ROY BIV, but there's no G. Why is that?"
"Well son, the answer lies in this figure -
- but I don't understand it, so in this case I think you should read about it yourself at IFL Science, and that way you'll remember it better. I'm going to go do some yard chores and when I get back you can ELI5 it to me."
"Researchers made the discovery when they used a powerful radio telescope facility — the Very Large Array in New Mexico – to check in on some two dozen black holes where stars had been shredded after coming too close to them. That is, the material in the star was pulled apart, or "spaghettified." Such happenings are called tidal disruption events, or TDEs... the best estimate we have is about two years after the star got eaten by this black hole is when this outflow began — and that's really exciting. That's never been seen before... In other words, the star got close enough to the black hole to get shredded – but not to fall into that point of no return."
An awesome performance involving not only the dexterity but also the memorization. TBH there is one notable difference in that Mozart was also writing his own music. And the one reservation I have when watching performances like this (or athletic ones) is the question of how many other life experiences the child has given up in order to achieve this degree of mastery. Still... awesome.
I like to end my blogging day by leaving a nice photo at the top of the page. Can't do much better than an updated view of this remarkable formation.
Small red dots on the edges of the pillars are baby stars—only a few hundred thousand years old, according to the Webb team. The red, lava-like streaks in the clouds are ejections from stars being formed. These nascent gas balls send off jets of material that strike the gas in the pillars, causing energetic hydrogen molecules in the system to glow...
The pillars—brown and turbid in Hubble’s view—appear luminous and orange to Webb. The backdrop of gas and deep space turns from an opaque turquoise to a bedazzlement of stars, shining through a sea of lapis lazuli gas. That’s because Webb’s image highlights the hydrogen atoms in the gas, which shine in blue light. The Webb telescope’s infrared eye also penetrates through dense clouds of dust and gas, allowing it to see previously unknown regions of star formation.
Golden Lion Award at the Venice Film Festival, three Academy Award nominations, Rotten Tomatoes score of 100%, currently streaming on the Criterion Channel. Full movie available on YouTube.
Even though this information will never be "useful" to me in any practical sense, I'm posting it because of the interesting method of display (a type of Venn diagram). Here's another method:
Even if your state is solidly "red" or "blue" your vote can be important in state and town elections. Those puzzled by the "Jaws" reference should view this video: